I could not even resist on saying that being in a relationship is somehow one of the most happiest status a person can have. Yes it is indeed full load pack of dopamine whenever you are with your special someone. A feeling of being secured whenever you need some cuddles and sweet bonding together. It is somewhat giving yourself a chance being being with someone whom you can trust and be with until growing old. It is like you are having a friend but at the same time a bestfriend, an adviser, an enemy and most especially a lover. But what I have realized is that, sometimes it is better to have a compete time for yourself only wherein you can actually do the things that you want without attachment to someone. Because sometimes in a realtionship, one is experiencing dilemma that actually connects to the fear of losing one self in the process of being attached and not having enough time to ponder on his/her own self. Yes, relationships do last long but sometimes it is inevitable to have a second thought. Especially in a long term relationship, it could be more scarier because what if one day„ one realizes the things that he/she wants to do without being attached to anyone? The regrets, the feeling of what you could have done when you till have the chance?
Sometimes, it is tough because it will be realized in the end where chances are no longer available.
Uncertainly, some fools just didn’t understand what a girl really needs. They just don’t get the fact that a girl is a GIRL, nothing more, nothing less. People are often familiar that girls are bound to be surrounded by feelings, emotions, soft-hearted attitude and whatsoever. :| They just don;t get the fact that ATTENTION is somewhat the most important thing you could ever give a girl. My professor mentioned in our Gender Relations class, Girls are ATTENTION SEEKERS, so if they started to demand for something like that, DUDE it is normal. :|
I find it so lame for the guys who are actually narrow-minded that they could not even understand it.